Where your Wants meet!
A private way to say what you're both wanting to.
Select your desires privately. We only ever reveal what matches, plus anything more you choose to show, partner by partner.
Hear when Wanting To opens
Wanting To is open by invitation right now. Join the waitlist and we'll email you when there's room.
What it is
Wanting To is a private space for partners to explore what they're each open to, without the awkwardness of bringing it up first. Everyone privately marks what they're into; the app only ever shows what you both already agree on. Nothing is ever shared, matched, or acted on without every person involved choosing to.
How it works
1. Create a private, anonymous profile. No real name required.
2. Mark each Preference red / yellow / green, and how much you want it.
3. Connect with a partner.
4. See your Mutual Wants and what you're both Open to Exploring. Consent is always asked for, every time.
Privacy first
You decide what each partner sees: by default, only what matches and anything you choose to always show. Journals and reflections are encrypted and kept apart from everything else. Research statistics are strictly opt-in. How we handle your data →